'It’s said that when you deeply wound an INFJ, they don’t "hate" you, they "nothing" you. If the door has been slammed on you, it’s because the INFJ saw no other way of stopping the emotional pain you were causing them. They tend to be patient and forgiving of others’ shortcomings, but even INFJs have their breaking point. When an unhealthy relationship becomes draining and damaging, the INFJ must remove it to save their sanity. Usually the door is slammed only as a last resort.'